aderator 38/M Standard Member Brooklyn, New York, United States 0 from you Last Visit: More than 3 months

i guess ill start off with the cliche guy thing and just start talking about myself and what i want :) I have been interested in kink my whole life, none the less my interaction with the scene have been fairly minimal due to a busy schedule, however i decided it's about time i started scheduling my passions into my life. i am a law student for scholastic purposes however i am a mechanic, a builder, and part time sculptor by passion and hobby, i spend most of my free time tinkering with machines, and various constructions that come to mind and the rest of my free time is usually spent restoring classic cars. i have a particular passion for 50s era cars, fashions, designs, technology, and even a bit of a kink for 50s style D/s role play ;) i also have a passion for film, both as a subject and as a capturer of beauty, although my skills as a photographer need a lot of work, but as they say practice makes perfect; on that note I do pride myself on my culinary skills, as I was nearly always cooking while growing up. I came from a large family and cooking was just a big part of it. I am a very dedicated and loving person, with a deep sense of loyalty and commitment, i have many lifelong friends, and i am very close with my family, they are aware of my predilections and they don't judge me for it. I am and always have been a naturally service oriented and passive guy, in spite of my size and strength; not that i am enormous or super strong, but i am and for most of my life have been fairly well built and a bit taller than most people around me, and i am in excellent physical shape. generally I live to make people happy, and there is nothing that brings me greater joy than putting a smile on the face of someone i love and adore. yup you guessed it, this is the lead in to me talking about my kinky side, yes my kind, loving, supportive, and service oriented nature directly feeds my submissive tendencies. I love cooking and cleaning, and giving massages, building thing and fixing things. I need a dominant person in my life who will use me to make herself happy. I need someone who knows what they want and has no problem using me to get it. more than that, I need someone whom i can absolutely give myself over to and worship, someone who loves to be adored and wants to know that i will always be hers so long as she wants me.