BonHed 50/M Standard Member Canton, Michigan, United States 0 from you Last Visit: Within last 3 months

I'm not sure where I fit; I'm mostly submissive but am not a slave. I like a bit of gender bending (calling me a good girl is very nice), but I'm not a sissy. Kinda looking to chat, maybe meet somewhere public (for those nearby), or do some online play, see where things go. I'm pretty casual with my kink, so I'm not looking for a strict Mistress/domme, and am looking to connect with someone rather than just plop right into D/s. I'm bicurious and fantasize about exploring that side a bit. Would need to take that slow. I've played online for a very long time, from MUCKS to SecondLife, usually as a female, which is where the gender bending comes from. However, I've not done a lot of real stuff. I've been to a few munches, some play parties, but it's been a really long time and I would need to get to know someone before heading back into that. I'm not into pain or bondage; I don't like being restrained, but I like collars and leashes. Also interested in public nudity (CFNM). I'm a nerd and geek, been into sci-fi and fantasy for most of my life. I also love heavy metal and all things dark & gothy. If you haven't paid for the site, I can be reached on the googles, same username @ the gee-mail.